The Achilles Heel Of Parent Guilt

“Regardless of cause, history, or contributing factors, feeling guilty about your past role in the development of a teenager’s problem behavior will risk sabotaging your parenting goals. For a more focused relationship with your teenager,

  1. Recognize guilt as negative self-talk that is normal, but that can be managed and stopped.
  2. Acknowledge that a desire for relief from guilt places you at risk for changing the rules, boundaries, and standards that you want followed.
  3. Seek professional counseling or other support to help you act more consistently and proactively, feel better about tough choices, and be less encumbered by what happened in the past.”

Feeling better about tough choices was always my Waterloo. But now I say over and over again that I did the best I could with what I knew. Now that I know better, I can do better. Repeat this mantra over and over again until you believe it.

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